Rosemary DeTrolio RMT When you were a child, did you ever ride the tilt a whirl? It was a dizzy ride where your brain scrambled. It was one of those rides where the other kid would make it go faster and faster until you wanted to puke. Bad communication is like that. It can also scramble the brain. Before you know it, you are thinking, is it you or me? Doubt creeps in. Confidence tanks. Get off the ride Here's how you know you are being taken for a ride: "I'm feeling hurt